House

A home blessing

For a new room, a recovered room, or a room that has only ever been rented. Renters are fully housed, spiritually.

Do not bury jars in someone else’s walls, and do not hammer nails into a rental as a spiritual personality. A blessing can live in a drawer and still count.

Timing. Moving day, or any morning you choose to stay more kindly.

Materials

  • Your key or a stand-in if you have no key, such as a doorstop you use.
  • Water.
  • Bread or any food you will eat.
  • A cloth.
  • A note.

Steps

  1. 1Wipe the threshold.
  2. 2Set the key on the cloth.
  3. 3Walk one loop of the space you actually control. Skip housemates’ closed doors.
  4. 4At the table, eat a bite of the food. Hospitality includes the host.
  5. 5Write: “For the time I am here, I will keep this place as safe as I can for myself and for anyone I invite.”
  6. 6Speak the words.
  7. 7Put the note in a book or a drawer. Wash the cup.
House, or room, or corner, I will not pretend you are a castle. I will not trash you. For as long as the key is mine, I am a careful animal in you.

Close. When you move out, take the note with you and leave the place broom-clean. That is the uncasting.

The practical action, which is not optional if you want the rite to be honest. Fix or report one small thing: a bulb, a drip, a fire-alarm battery.